Frequently Asked Questions about Cremation
How many
people use cremation today in Great Britain?
Since 1968 when the number of cremations exceeded burials for the
first time, cremation has increased considerably. Current figures
suggest that around 70% of all funerals are cremations.
Do any
religious groups forbid cremation?
All current Christian denominations, including the Roman Catholic
Church, allow cremation, as do Sikhs, Hindus, Parsees and
Buddhists. It is however forbidden by Orthodox Jews and
Muslims.
Is cremation
more expensive than burial?
No. Generally the cost of a grave is
much higher than the fee charged for cremation although the funeral
charges are similar for both services. The only additional charge
for cremation arises when the death has not been referred to a
coroner and two doctors need to be paid for the necessary
certificates. This does not apply to burial.
What religious
ceremony can I have with cremation?
The service for burial and cremation is the same apart from the
form of committal sentences. The service may take place at your own
place of worship with a short committal service in the crematorium
chapel, or you may have the whole service at the crematorium
chapel. Alternatively, you may prefer a civil ceremony be
conducted, or even no service at all.
How is a
cremation arranged?
The Cremation Regulations are complex and many people approach
a funeral director immediately death occurs, and advise him that
they wish to arrange a cremation. The funeral director will ensure
that all the necessary statutory forms for cremation are obtained
and presented to the Crematorium.
Can a
cremation be arranged without the services of a funeral
director?
Yes. The Executor or nearest surviving
relative may arrange the cremation service themselves. Cremation
authorities that are members of the Institute of Cemetery &
Crematorium Management's (ICCM) Charter for the Bereaved will
provide advice to persons arranging a cremation without the use of
a funeral director.
Can relatives
witness the committal of the coffin to the cremator?
Yes. Some crematoria have a viewing area that overlooks the
crematory, where you may witness the committal taking place. Others
may have a room equipped with CCTV enabling all of those in the
room to clearly see the committal whilst other crematoria may allow
a supervised group into the crematory to witness the
committal. The Crematorium must be informed that you wish to
witness the committal when the cremation is booked, so that staff
can be informed who will then make the necessary preparations on
the day.
Is the coffin
cremated with the body?
Yes. The ICCM Guiding Principles state that the container and the
body shall be placed in cremator and cremation commenced. The
coffin or container with the body inside shall not be opened or
otherwise disturbed, other than in exceptional circumstances, and
then only with the express permission and in the presence of the
Applicant for Cremation (usually the executor or next of
kin).
How soon after
the service will the cremation take place?
The ICCM Guiding Principles state that the container and the body
shall be placed in a cremator and cremation commenced no later than
72 hours after the service of committal. Where cremation may not be
carried out on the same day, the Applicant for Cremation shall be
notified.
This means that under normal circumstances the cremation is
usually carried out shortly after the service and certainly on the
same day. However, when a service takes place late in the day or a
limited number of services are booked, the cremations may take
place within the 72 hour period. Retention of coffins should only
be carried out where a secure and hygienic storage facility is
available. The benefits to the community from this include a
reduced impact on the environment as less fossil fuel will be
consumed and the efficient use of machinery and equipment will be
achieved.
How are
cremated remains kept separate?
A cremator can only accept one coffin at a time and all the remains
are removed from the cremator before the next cremation. An
identity card is used throughout the whole process until the final
disposal, thereby ensuring correct identification.
What happens to the cremated remains after cremation?
The law relating to cremation requires that cremated remains are
disposed of in accordance with the written instructions of the
applicant (usually the executor or nearest surviving relative).
Most crematoria have a range of options which might include
scattering or burying in the garden of remembrance, placing in a
columbarium, interring in a small family vault or niche. Options
for memorials are also available which might include plaques
beneath rose bushes, trees or shrubs and memorial benches with
plaques. The simplest form of memorial is an entry inscribed in a
book of remembrance. Your nearest crematorium will provide details
of their facilities.
Cremated remains may also be buried in family graves that are
full for coffined burials. Alternatively you may be able to
purchase a new cremated remains grave in a cemetery.
There is no need to make a hurried decision with regard the
final resting place of the remains with most crematoria having a
facility to hold the remains until a decision is made. Should a
crematorium not be contacted with a decision after a period of time
has elapsed you may receive a letter asking if you are ready to go
ahead. If you are not simply tell the crematorium that you need
more time (a fee may be applicable). Should a crematorium receive
no reply to their letter they may legally scatter or bury the
cremated remains within their grounds after giving 2 weeks written
notice.
Can more than
one body be cremated at a time?
No, each cremation is carried out separately. The aperture through
which the coffin passes in the cremator and the cremation chamber
are of dimensions that will only safely accept one coffin. However,
exceptions can be made in the case of a mother and baby or small
twin children, so long as the next of kin or executor has made this
specific request.
Most crematoria will allow public inspection of the 'behind
the scenes' procedures in an attempt to enlighten the public on all
aspects of the cremation process.
Are coffins
sold back to funeral directors for re-use?
No. The coffin and the body inside are cremated together. There are
occasions where the deceased or the family of the deceased have
opted for using a cardboard coffin in which their loved one will be
cremated. When this happens families sometimes want to have a more
aesthetically pleasing coffin or container on the catafalque during
the service. Families therefore will opt for either a pall (a cloth
covering the cardboard coffin), or a 'cocoon coffin' (an outer
shell that covers the cardboard coffin) or will decorate a
cardboard coffin themselves. Neither the pall nor the cocoon is
cremated. It is important to understand that the pall and cocoon do
NOT contain the body of the deceased; they are simply superficial
coverings for a cardboard coffin.
Can I visit a
crematorium and see what happens behind the scenes?
Yes. All crematoria will arrange for such a visit if given
prior notice. The visit may take place whilst cremations are taking
place or when not; the choice is yours. This open door policy helps
to dispel the myths that have been explained above. On seeing the
cremation process the viewer can be reassured that all cremations
take place individually, coffins are cremated with the deceased and
that identity is maintained throughout the process so that a family
can be sure that they receive the correct cremated remains.
Where can I
find out more information about cremation?
The ICCM Charter for the bereaved gives detailed information
about all aspects of the cremation process and encompasses
environmental and social aspects. Cremation authorities that have
adopted the Charter for the Bereaved will provide information and
guidance and you can obtain a full reference copy of the Charter
document from the ICCM website at
http://www.iccm-uk.com/.